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How to keep resolutions

Are You Finally Ready to ​Change Your Resolutions to Reality?

Premade ​20-day calendar with realistic goals, ​exercise programs, ​nutrition guide, ​group, and coach support for a successful new year!​

​​​Starts Wednesday, January 1st, 2020

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[​The Resolutions to Reality 2020 Challenge is 20 days]

​Start the New Decade with ​Success and Confidence!​

​​Need to Get Your Life in Order?

​​You've been meaning to

  • ​Finally get back in shape or lose weight
  • ​Give yourself, your business, and your loved ones the energy they deserve
  • ​​​Start doing you, making better choices towards your goals â€‹
  • See ​how much you can enjoy your life and business

​But instead you always

  • Give up because you don't know what you're doing
  • Get discouraged not seeing results as quickly as you used to
  • ​Feel overwhelmed ​with multiple projects/clients, deadlines, kids, etc. 
  • Procrastinate because you haven't been stern enough to follow through
  • ​Quit crazy diet and exercise plans?

Having problems with follow through?  How many times per ​week do you say "not yet," or de-prioritize good things you mean to do? Taking care of yourself, getting out of bed, eating healthy, ​exercising, turning off the TV, the list goes on...


This procrastination is practice saying no to your goals, which hurts your productivity, confidence, and quality of life.

By the way: this is normal, but​ it's always a good time to get consistent so you can reach your goals!

Reasons Your Last Diet/ Workout Failed, and You Keep Procrastinating

​Changing by yourself is hard! It's the difference between people who say they want to ​learn ​to play guitar, run a 5k, speak Spanish, or lose weight, and those who do it.


The internet estimates we make about 35,000 decisions each day; a study from Cornell University says 221 are food related. That's a lot to handle. Each one ​brings us closer to or further from our goals. Here's why you gave up:


  • Your objectives weren't SMART enough to motivate you
    • Specific- "I'll do the exercise stuff at the gym"
    • Measurable- "and eat healthier foods"
    • ​Achievable- "​working out 2 hours longer every day"
    • Relevant- "because I probably should" (Did you know your purpose?)
    • Time-bound- "forever"


So of course, when the dessert menu came, or it felt too hard to put on shoes, it was easy to say "Just this once," "I'm too tired," etc. I would too!


  • You didn't have support

​New sports bras and shoes don't count. Did you have a partner or coach who was at least as committed as you were? Did you find community with others going through the same changes at the same time? Was anyone/anything holding you accountable?

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  • You didn't ​think you ​were important enough

​You sometimes wonder, "Who am I to get what I want out of life?" You feel too busy- maybe you're such a giving person that you usually put others' needs ahead of your own- work, kids, ​school, relationships, ​​etc.

If your personal health is declining, you're killing your energy, focus, and performance. You're also increasing your risk of chronic disease and early death. That's not helping others! Like airplane oxygen masks, put yours on before helping others. You can only serve to the level of your consciousness and ability.

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  • You needed more practice

​How long did it take you to learn to ride a bike? How ​many times did ​you crash before you got the hang of it? Sometimes behavior change is discouraging, but clear objectives, support, and valuing yourself will motivate ​you through ​tough moments until you see ​you can do it, build momentum, and start seeing results!​​


One more. The biggest and scariest of all...

​What's really keeping you from
reaching your goals?

​We ​trick ourselves into believing we're completely in control of our choices. But if you were really in charge, how do you end up doing so many things you said you wouldn't? ​​Would you still carry extra weight, procrastinate, and ​waste time doing everything except what you say is important?

Let's Talk About It: Fear

See if these apply to you:

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Fear of failure- Deep down, you were afraid your ​new plan ​wouldn't work. You feared this disappointment, so you did little things like a few pieces of candy, or skipping days.

 

This gave you a sense of control- if you were going to fail, at least it would be on your own terms. But you were actually so far out of control that your reach for it killed your goal!


When your results ​weren't what would've happened if you had stuck to the plan, you told yourself and your friends, "I tried." Then sadly returned to ​the same old habits that you still wish you could change.​

Procrastination is the fear of failure- taking the easy, insignificant win now over putting effort into your best (or just better) potential outcome. And explaining it away like your goals aren't important. Ouch!


Fear of rejection​- This ​​​comes up with sense of identity, reputation, and belonging. If people know you as ​the guy/girl who will always throw back a few cold beers and hot wings after work, the first few times you didn't ​were surprising. Same if you usually drop everything to take care of others. 


The pressure to fit in is important. You felt like you should keep doing what you've always done... but that always gets you the same results you want to change, right?

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​​Some ​entrepreneurs ​include ​fear of success.​ ​I don't ​believe you're afraid of accomplishing your goals. It's more likely you're afraid people may reject your status or investment into your success, or afraid of failing in new responsibilities​.

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Also, FOMO, fear of missing out, regret, or making a wrong decision, is a combination of fear of failure and fear of rejection. Take a ​moment to ​clarify it for yourself- what do you ​imagine will happen if you say no to that episode, event everyone's going to, or cookie?

​You deserve to know what happens when you apply yourself

​You don't want to go through life without knowing what you could achieve. You're ready to stop letting your fears, phone, food, and TV control your life.

If you need excuses, use them to reach your goals, not sabotage ​them yourself...

​People love to make excuses NOT to do the things they know they should.

  • "I can't, something came up/ someone needs my help."
  • "I would, but I don't feel like it now."
  • ​"I'm not sure how to ​start, so I'll wait."
  • "I'm gonna eat what I want because treat yo self / I'm worth it/ life is short."

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Remember opportunity costs. Every time you say YES to something, you are saying NO to several other things:


  • Saying YES to another emergency project from that annoying client is saying NO to new prospects during that project
  • ​Saying YES ​to that extra drink is saying NO to a fresh start in the morning
  • Saying YES to chocolate cake is saying NO to your healthier ​options right now
  • ​Saying YES to temptation is saying NO to what you believe is right on paper, before the moment started

​MOST PAINFULLY, ​saying YES to excuse yourself from your goal​ is saying NO to your goal


Don't get it twisted- ​when you believe and behave that you are worth it, you'll say YES to YOU, and change your resolutions to reality​!

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Life would be short if you were ​to die right after eating that cake. But the sweetness of life comes with the confidence of knowing you will do what you told yourself you would across time and situations. 

Take your power back!

​Switch it up. Instead of telling yourself eating a little cake won't hurt right now, recognize skipping​ the cake won't hurt, ​while saying YES to yourself and your long-term goals.


It's a practice; I know the first few times can be challenging. I'll never forget the first office birthday party on this challenge. It was probably the first time I've ever said no to cake, while I politely watched 7 people around me eat it.


But the feeling of success was beyond rewarding! I was more excited not to eat that cake than I had ever been to eat any cake.


You just need a framework with clear objectives, support, and ​the belief you're worth the effort to face your fears.

It's Time to Prioritize ​​Your Goals â€‹and ​Your SELF

I've got THE SIMPLE SOLUTION ​for a successful start ​to the new decade

​Presenting...​

How to keep resolutions

Resolutions to Reality 2020 with Fit for Freelance is THE 20-DAY SOLUTION to make this year different from the others!


Here's how we prove YOU have the power and confidence to reach your goals:

  • 1
    Get the COMPLETE daily checklist with clear objectives: Knowing is half the battle! SMART plans for beginners (no gym required!) and advanced show you exactly â€‹how to ​change your Resolutions to Reality
  • 2
     Win each day:  ​Celebrate every day with gratitude and progress check sheet. See your purpose to stay focused on your goals
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    ​Huge support! ​Timely Facebook live casts. Share stories and connect with others on their self-improvement journey in our private Facebook group
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​Guidelines-

​Write each day on the ​done-for-you calendar:

See FAQ below for details​ and ​rationale

​​In the morning- 3 things you're thankful for

Throughout the day-

  • ​Circle if you followed the ​already written â€‹exercise plan​​​
  • What page you're on- read at least 1 page of your personal reading list daily
  • Number of alcoholic drinks you​ had
  • Circle if you followed these pre-made general food guidelines:
    • ​3+ servings of ​fruits and vegetables/day
    • ​Water:
      • ​Women: 3 quarts (96 ounces, 2.8 liters)
      • Men: 1 gallon ​(128 ounces,  3.8 liters)
    • ​2 or fewer times per week
      • Sugar-sweetened foods or drinks- ​including candy, cakes, pies, cookies, soda, tea, or drank
        • Exception: ​70% or higher dark chocolate
      • No ​battered or deep-fried foods, bacon, or chips​


​The ​clear objective is to do these things every day. The KEY is to not miss two days in a row!​


ACCOUNTABILITY: What makes this challenge different from your typical resolution is ​you send me a message on any day you miss your objectives with:

  1. ​What you missed
  2. What led to you choosing not to reach your objectives
  3. ​If you want​ troubleshooting help to avoid those obstacles

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​Don't hide from your success! Promise yourself you'll do this if you miss a day. I'm not here to judge you; I want you to know the success of doing what you say you will. If you miss a day, I'll follow up the next day to see how you did.

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I've done the groundwork for you. ​Your success depends on your ability to face your fears, adapt to challenges, and follow through with the goal. You can do it!

What People ​Said About Starting The Health Habits Challenge

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“I do for my kids and community, but not me."

“I need to get healthy for me. I take no meds, but I'm always 'borderline.' I want to lower my blood pressure and sugar, and ultimately lose weight.

I want to get more active so I can do more of what I love- go to the beach, paddleboard, swim, etc. If I do more, my kids will too. I'm ready."

​Monica W.
- ​Food Pantry Director and Busy Mom

“To reaffirm to myself that I'm valuable enough to make sacrifices for."

“I'd gladly trade temporary indulgence for the satisfaction of making good choices, improved performance, and a feeling that is farther reaching."​

​Darrell M.
- ​High School Strength and Conditioning Coach and Educator
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“Kick the urge to reach for chips and sweets...

​and start taking 20 minutes a day to check in with myself/self-improvement on a consistent basis. Of course if I lost a few pounds I would be a-ok with that as well."​

​Whitney S.
- Luxury Retail Manager

​Join Reality to Resolutions 2020

Starting January 1st!

Whether you suck at following through long enough to get powerful results, or you're a lifestyle discipline athlete looking for a fresh approach, join the challenge that makes it simple to

​change your RESOLUTIONS to REALITY!

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$4​50?

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"If you were to recommend this challenge to your best friend, what would you say?"

  • It really works without buying specialty items or food. -Carol H.
  • This month will show you how easy it is to live a healthy lifestyle. -Dayne W.
  • I would say that it was a fun way to stay dedicated and committed -Zach B.
  • Hey Brother check out this health group my friend Reggie has. Lots of great like minded people to help you stay on track to achieve your health goals. -Tommy B.
  • It’s motivating to give yourself a timeline with goals and a method to get there. The support of community is huge. -Christina C.
  • The biggest reward you can gain is awareness of how your body is really feeling. -Rachel C.
  • This will challenge you in new and unexpected ways. You may have tried many other things, I would highly recommend trying this as it will change the way you look at some of your behaviors. -Sam F.
  • Reggie has a great program that will motivate you to be better. It is a whole-person improvement which will help you, your family and those around you! -Lauren M.
  • Easiest way to make changes. It wasn’t about scale, although I lost 7 pounds. Monica W.
  • Do it! Even if you don't complete everything it is the mindfulness that sets you free and proves that you said "yes" to yourself. You can see your progress and or what you need to work on and it is inspiring. -Jacki K.
  • It works. Could change your life -Jordan S.

​"What was your biggest fear, and did it come true?"

"I used to indulge mindlessly, so I was afraid...

​that I wouldn't stick to the program or participate in the group. But instead, I enjoyed posting in the group regularly and I achieved awesome results like losing inches off my waist! I also gained the ability to talk myself into just getting up and going to work out when I didn't want to."

​Alexandria S.

"I thought I would mess up...

​keeping up with the exercise. [My fear] did not come true. I was able to consistently wake up in the morning before work to get in exercise. The improved work/life balance has lowered the stress and helped with my sleep and waking up at 5:30am. My favorite result was improved energy and body image."

​Brett G.
- ​Dad and Engineer

“I wasn't sure if I could do it.”

"I've always convinced myself I don't need to diet; I'm in good enough shape. Plus a dessert bar just opened by the office, July 4th was coming, etc. I realized I was making tons of excuses for why I wouldn't do things I know are good for me, and I wondered how that translates to my business. 


I decided to give the challenge a try. In 28 days, I had exercised every day, didn't eat any cake, ​felt UNSTOPPABLE when I followed through, and  focused better when working. I even took it to 75 days!" 

​Reggie Wilson (me!)
- Wellness Coach and Freelance Medical Education Writer
75HARD

Data don't lie

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What People ​Said ​After Finishing The Health Habits Challenge

“ I succeeded in my main goal- to refocus on taking care of myself.​"

​I exercised 20 times this month. I ate a LOT of fruit and vegetables. I had 5 alcoholic beverages all month and one sugary beverage. I drank more water than I have ever drank in my entire life. I improved my mind with podcasts and articles to help me professionally and word games to improve my vocabulary. I had 2 desserts and NO ICE CREAM which was a very big accomplishment for me. I lost 4 pounds and 2” from my waist. Coming in to this challenge, I was worried that I was changing too much at once and would not succeed. But I found the guidelines to help me, the group to motivate me, and even though I faltered in some areas, I felt that I succeeded in my main goal- to refocus on taking care of myself.

​​Sam F.

“People are calling me svelte."

“One belt notch skinnier! People are calling me svelte, which is apparently what you call a hairy man who loses a bit of weight."​

​Bob O.
- ​​Bond Attorney

​"I'm going for another 28-day stretch. These outcomes have felt awesome."

​Noah W.
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​"I have more energy, feel younger and healthier, and my mind is clear and sharp."

"​I was motivated by two factors – one, to get in shape physically; and two – to have more clarity of thought. Although I have followed a healthy diet for many years, as I’ve aged, I’ve noticed I feel more sluggish and have an overall slight feeling of malaise.

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I’ve known several factors of my diet contribute to this – namely, bread, alcohol, and simple carbs. These don’t make up a large portion of my diet, but I think over many years of consistent consumption, even in moderate doses, they have had a negative impact on my life.

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The health challenge provided an opportunity to take stock of this and motivation to eliminate them from my diet, even for a short time. Similar to my physical shape, my mental state has been feeling more sluggish over the years. I’ve often suspected that the aforementioned foods and lack of consistent exercise are contributing factors to this hazy mental state.

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The health challenge was a great motivating factor to truly understand the effect of diet and exercise on my mind. The results have been as expected – illuminating and exciting."

​John C.
- ​​Small Business Owner and Author

“I liked the fact that you were holding me accountable."

I needed a challenge and I like the fact that you were holding me accountable by asking how I was doing during the challenge. ​When I saw you were doing the challenge yourself with no drinking , I gotta say that’s what truly grabbed my attention.

​Summer B.
- ​Mom and Nursing Student
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​Reggie Wilson

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A Quick Note From Your ​Coach

Hey!

I'm Reggie. I created Fit for Freelance with the mission to improve entrepreneurs' productivity and health so they enjoy the reasons they work.

​

​I figured most people would love to experience exactly how their health choices help them feel great and work better.

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​This challenge is ​the first step to empower you in your goals and business so you spend more time doing things with the people you love. I think it's somewhere between "eye-opening" and ​"LIFE-CHANGING," â€‹and the data and testimonies agree. What results will ​you​ earn?​​​​


​I'm honored to serve our community.

​

​Reggie

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​Some Experience:

  • Public health nutrition educator, worksite wellness consultant, and certified personal trainer who ​coaches the mindset that gets clients results​ ​​​
  • Graduate Certificate in Positive Behavior Support- intervention ​coaching to replace challenging behaviors with ​positive ones
  • Freelance medical education writer simplifies the ​​what, why, and how of ​​medical science and research for clients
  • ACE ​Orthopedic Exercise Specialist for posture and back, shoulder, and knee injuries
  • Master of Science degree in Medical Sciences
​Resume

I Can't: The Stories We Tell Ourselves
(click to read why you can definitely do this)

​I Can't; I'm lazy

​I Can't; I don't have time

​I Can't; afford to/ don't want to give you money

​I Can't;​ I'm not an entrepreneur

​I Can't; ​give up bacon, pie, pizza, margaritas, tacos, Oreos, and beer

​I Can't; ​commit. I'm afraid I'll cheat

​I Can't; I've never kept a resolution for more than 2 weeks/ the challenge is too long/ I'm too old

​I Can't; I have a wedding/ birthday/ ​event/ vacation /family in town / sports/ holiday/ tough moment at work coming up

​​I Can't; ​deal with a bunch of annoying follow ups!

​​I Can't; ​​it's too much for me right now

​So are you in? Or will it be more of the same for you?

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​What You Get for just $47 

  • Pre-made, clearly defined goals, exercise plan, nutrition guide, dates, and accountability to keep your commitment to yourself
  • ​​Group support from exclusive Facebook group for challenge members
  • ​Encouraging Facebook live coaching sessions highlighting success, strategies,  and gratitude
  • ​1 on 1 behavior coaching to overcome obstacles to your success (if necessary)
  • ​Checklist calendar to review your purpose and progress each day
  • ​Pre- and post- surveys to track your success
  • ​BONUS: 20% off custom programs by March 1st

​build confidence, feel great, and work better when you ​CHANGE YOUR RESOLUTIONS TO REALITY

​YES, I'M WORTH IT​!

Frequently Asked Questions

​​Why count how much alcohol I drink?

​​​Why 3+ servings of fruits and vegetables?

​​Can I choose a different diet?

​​​Why ​do I even need exercise?

​Can I do this if I'm not an entrepreneur?

​Do I need a gym membership?

​​Why so much water?

​​How can I get a custom​ workout plan?

​What ​exactly are the next steps?

​​Got more questions?

​7 ​encouraging answers to "If you were to recommend this challenge to your best friend, what would you say?"

  1. I did this challenge, and I really liked it. Reggie checked in multiple times with me, and held me accountable when I was nonchalant about it. -Markietta H.
  2. This is a great challenge to start a reset on your lifestyle. Take everything day by day and always try to do something just a bit better. -Brett G.
  3. ​​Just go all in with the challenge. Many of the key points I could do while on the road shooting a documentary so you can do it too! -Angel E.
  4. ​​It’s super simple -Marisa A.
  5. Just stick to the plan as best you can and you will feel great. -Marcia S.
  6. ​​You've GOT to try this! With an excellent moderator, supportive groups members, and a little will power you will be amazed at your success. You'll probably want to do it again! Alexandria S.
  7. Hey girl, you should invest in yourself by joining this challenge. It's not invasive but you know you will have people behind you wanting you to succeed. What do you have to lose? -Nadia A.

P.S.: That's all there is to it! Still procrastinating under the guise of "research?" Don't be like that. Sleep on it, think it through- but not too long! This ​group closes 12/31 at 11:59pm ET.


You sure are interested though... you're ready for a change, and this challenge is a great way to make it happen. Hope you join!

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